Have you heard about this before? Today it is a big business in India. Anand village in western Gujarat is famous for surrogated mothers. Ladies who are ready to give their uterus for rent will get up to 1 lac. In most of the cases, foreigners are paying this much amount to get a rented mother. Poor ladies from Indian villages are agreeing for this contract. There are protections rising against this contract. Today I read news about this. So I thought write about that. One Japanese couple made a surrogacy arrangement with an Indian lady. The Ikh fumi couples didn’t have a child for many years. So they approached surrogate mother and paid the money. On July 25th a baby girl was delivered. But the problem really happened when his wife separated from him and said she doesn’t want a child like this. Only couples can adopt such a child. According to Indian law, only couples can adopt a baby from here and a single man cannot adopt a baby girl. As there’s not much law protection for surrogacy, normally couples are going for adoption to get a child. The new born Manchi can’t leave India without a passport. When Ikh Fumi  tried for a passport, they sent him to the Japanese Embassy.  Then they wanted him to come with some proof that shows his relation to the baby. His Indian friend’s wife only feeding the baby now. Now they have approached the court for justice. Manchi is now known as the first orphan born through Surrogacy by the press. Because of the serial bomb blasts in Ahmedabad, now the baby is sent to a hospital in Jaipur. Hope she will get parents and relatives very soon.

What is surrogacy?

Surrogacy is an agreement between a woman and a couple/ individual to carry and deliver a baby. It is a contentious process that is not legal in all states. The surrogate mother is also known as a gestational carrier. This process is an expensive, time consuming, and emotional one. Women or couples who decide surrogacy often do so because they are unable to conceive due to a missing or abnormal uterus, have experienced multiple pregnancy losses, or have had multiple in vitro fertilization attempts that have failed. The advantage of gestational surrogacy to the parents is that the embryo is created from the woman’s egg and the man’s sperm, so it is biologically theirs. In gestational surrogacy, the embryo is implanted in the surrogate through in vitro fertilization. The surrogate carries the baby to term, then gives up the child and signs over parental rights at birth. Usually, the couple pays legal fees, agency fees if applicable, and a fee to the carrier. If the carrier does not have health insurance that covers prenatal care and delivery, the couple would most likely pay those costs also.

There are some more reasons for surrogacy. Many foreigners believes Indians are very good in culture and intelligence. So a baby from an indian mother will be more bright and strong. Some modern ladies who are not ready to carry a baby for a long time like 9+ months and but still wants a baby of their husband, try for such a baby.
Disadvantages of surrogacy include the possibility that the surrogate will change her mind about giving up the rights after birth. Some couples also worry about legal issues. There might also be differences between the couple and the carrier regarding medical, nutritional, or testing issues. The success rate of surrogacy cannot be determined because it is dependent on many factors. Now many ladies are finding it an easy way to make huge amount of money. What you think about this???

date8 Aug

1. Teacher teaching algebra to student
A=B
B=C
That means A=C
Sir asked 2 give example 4 it
Student: sir I love u, u love your daughter, it means I love your daughter

2. Dad: Son, what do you want for your birthday?
Son: Not much dad, just a radio with a sports car around it.

3. A rose is always a rose whether it’s in a golden pot or in the ground.
Same way u r always my friend whether u r in central jail or mental hospital

4. TEACHER: you call your mother as MUM. What will you call your mother’s younger sister & elder sis?
Sardar: so simple, I’ll call them MINIMUM & MAXIMUM

5. How to kill a mosquito: Catch it alive, Tie its legs then make gudgudi in its stomach and when it laughs,
Catch its mouth & pour a spoon of poison.

6. Wife 2 Husband, ‘See That’s My First Boy-Friend At The Bar, He Is Drinking Since I Left Him 10 Years Ago!’
Husband, ‘Nonsense! No One Can Celebrate That Long!’

7. A Son at college wanted more money. He sent a telegram to his father
“NO MONEY.
NO FUN.
YOUR SON.”
The father replied:
“HOW SAD,
TOO BAD,
YOUR DAD!!

8. Frog goes to astrologer to know its future.
Ast: you’ll meet a young girl who wants to know everything about you.
Frog:Great! When & where?
Ast: Next semester in biology lab.

9. Boy: I’ll climb the tallest mount, swim the deepest ocean, walk on hot coal bare-foot, just 4u..!
Girl: So sweet! Can u come to meet me?
Boy: Not now, its raining..

10. Judge: U r crossing the limits.
Lawyer: Kaun Saala aisa kehta hai?
Judge: How dare you call me saala (dog)?
Lawyer: My Lord, I said kaun ‘Sa Law’ (which law) kehta hai?
 

date7 Aug

Again Beauty of Kerala……………….

Athirappally Waterfalls
athirappaally waterfalls
It is 40 km from Cochin on the Thrissur route. This waterfalls welcome you at the entrance of the Sholayar ranges.

Thrissur Pooram

It is one of the most colorful temple festivals of Kerala which attracts large masses of devotees and spectators from all parts of the State and even outside. So many tourists are coming to see this particular festival

Fort Kochi

Cheena vala (Chinese fishing net)

Jain temple, Fort Cochin

Fort Kochi was granted to the Portuguese in 1503 by the Rajah of Kochi, who also gave them permission to build a fort near the waterfront to protect their commercial interests.  It was a Portuguese colony till 1947. Now in kerala state. A nice place to roam around.

Wayanad


Wayanad – a green paradise – the border world of greener part of Kerala. Clean and pristine, enchanting and hypnotising this land has a history and mystery, culture and social epistemology yet to be discovered. There are many indigenous tribal groups in this area.

date5 Aug

puttu and kadala

Puttu (Steam Cake)

Ingredients

Roasted rice powder
Salt
Jeera – 1 pinch
Grated coconut -1 half
Water

Add all the ingredients except coconut to make a mixture. The water level will be in such a proportion that it should be dry, don’t stick on your palm and when you make a ball out of that and put it down in a plate it won’t break. Hope you understand what i told. Boil water in the puttu maker pot or cooker and allow boiling. Take the pipe like part of puttu-maker, place the small hole-plate in it and put some grated coconut. On that coconut put rice mixture till half the pipe. Again put the coconut and last close it with the lid. This will help the steam to reach the pipe very easily. It will take only 2-3 minutes to cook the puttu.

 Kadala curry (Chana masala)

Ingredients

Black Chana
Onions
Meat masala
Grated coconut

Cook chana with onion. Don’t put salt in the beginning. it will not get cooked properly. Fry coconut in low flame. No need to add oil. When it turns golden color, add meat masala and keep for 1 minute. Grind these ingredients to make a thick paste. Heat oil and add mustard and curry leaves and add this mixture and enough salt. Add cooked chana to this and allow to boil.

One of my favorite breakfasts. Try it. You also will like.

date5 Aug

In Hindi – Bhool Bhulaiya
In Tamil & Telugu – Chandramukhi
In Kannada – Apthamithra

I am talking about the super hit Malayalam movie MAnichithrathazhu directed by Fazil in 1993. This is the brief summary of the movie.Husband and wife (Suresh Gopi and Shobhana) coming to a village to spend a vacation. They are planning to stay in husband’s old bungalow. So many superstitious incidents are related to the bungalow. Wife decides to open up a locked room, which is not supposed to be opened. So many unnatural events take place inside the palace. So many black magicians are coming to solve the problem. But the ghost is acquiring more power by each day. Then the husband’s best friend Dr. Sunny (Mohanlal) comes. He’s going through the issues and studying each people in the bungalow. This is the story behind the bungalow. The ancestor of this palace brought a dancer called Nagavalli from Thanjavoor, Tamil Nadu. She fell in love with Ramanathan, another dancer staying next to the bungalow. The Karanavar (eldest member of the family) became obsessed with her. When he knew about the affair, he killed both the dancers in the south facing room (thekkini in malayalam). But Nagavalli came back as a powerful vampire and tried to kill the Karanavar. He escaped somehow and with the help of many sorcerers trapped her spirit in the Thekkini. This is the room opened by our heroine.
Manichithrathazhu
With painful heart Dr. Sunny realizes that Ganga, his friend’s wife only showing this dual personality. Her childhood was with her grandmother who was a superstitious woman. She got some mental depression when her parents took her to the town from her lovely village. Her suppressed feelings and sympathy towards the killed lady Nagavally made her like this. Dr. Sunny is really skilled and tries to bring her back to normal life. And the Nagavally in Ganga announces that she will kill her husband on an auspicious day because she is seeing that old Karanavar in him. Nagavally promised the doctor that she will leave Ganga after this murder. With the help of a powerful sorcerer, Dr. Sunny makes some plans and on that auspicious day, they are doing some black-magic and a dummy of the husband is presenting in front of the wife turned Nagavally. She applies all her angry, agony and revenge on it and goes from Ganga’s body. After some hypnotism sections she becomes all right and all become happy.

Sobhana got National award for best heroine for her character Ganga in this movie. Nice melodious songs sung by Yesudas & K.S Chithra, the scene where Ganga gradually changes into Nagavalli and her Malayalam changing into pure Tamil, and the bharatanatyam dance sequence are the highlights of the movie. This movie made 15 years ago. I have seen it minimum 5 times. I never missed it when they shown it in cable channels. Whenever I am seeing this title in TV, it can easily glue me to the seat.

date4 Aug

According to George W. Bush “The march of democracy will lead to world peace” and according to Leon Trotsky, a Marxist theorist, assumed that the world revolution would lead to a communist world peace. But I feel thinking about the uncertainty of your life will lead to peace. If you can find peace in you, then you can spread that peace to your family, society and at last to our whole world. All the wars and terrorism are the creation of some peace-less minds. And the cost we are paying for that is too much. So many innocent people are victims of some other people’s cruelty and entertainment. Some people are thinking that they are doing some “Holy War” – Jihad. Jihad is an Islamic term and is a religious duty of Muslims and the word meaning is “striving in the way of Allah”. It doesn’t mean to kill others to reach the top. All the recent happenings forced most of the people and officials around the globe to watch Muslims with suspected eyes. It is really painful. I don’t think that any of the spiritual books like Qur’an, Bible or Vedas want people to destroy fellow beings and make their stand safe. If you are ready to forgive, 99% problems will be solved. See the condition of Palestine and Israel. The common people are afraid to come out from their houses. Anytime bombs will fall on them. Kids can’t go to schools. I don’t know whether the condition has changed or not.

In my India also there are too many bomb blasting and terrorist attacks now a days. Many places are under the shadow of terrorist attack. Too many political issues also. I don’t like other country people only when they plays cricket against us. That’s the team spirit. Otherwise I love all.  Think about people in Africa and other poor countries. They are struggling for food and water. If the developed and war liking countries can save something by stopping the disputes and contribute that to these people… I know you also have some feeling for them at least the time when you see the forwarded mails explaining their life battle.  I don’t know what I can do to stop these wars, disputes, conflicts and poverty. Still my prayers are there. If you believe there’s a power over all these, no matter what you call that power, pray for the world peace.

I have only one thing to tell the terrorists and war lovers – Jiyo Aur Jeene Do (Live and Let Live).

date1 Aug
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